Teen Idol Rob Lowe, 59, Found Happiness with an Older Wife – Meet the Woman Who Saved His Life 3 Decades Ago

  • Rob Lowe transformed from a young star to a family man, with his wife Sheryl Berkoff’s help.
  • Berkoff was key in Lowe’s fight against addiction, supporting his journey to sobriety.
  • Lowe often talks about how much Berkoff means to him, showing her big role in his life.
  • A photo Lowe shared got fans talking about Berkoff’s “stunning” yet changed look.
Rob Lowe at the closing ceremony of the 59th Monte Carlo TV Festival on June 18, 2019 in Monte-Carlo, Monaco | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe at the closing ceremony of the 59th Monte Carlo TV Festival on June 18, 2019 in Monte-Carlo, Monaco | Source: Getty Images

Hollywood actor Rob Lowe went from a famous young star to a stable, sober family man. His journey shows great change and strength.

Known for his parts in big movies and TV shows, his early career had its ups and downs. Everything changed for the better when he met his wife, Sheryl Berkoff. She helped him find a steady and fulfilling life.

Rob Lowe in Spago in West Hollywood on October 9, 1985 | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe in Spago in West Hollywood on October 9, 1985 | Source: Getty Images

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Now, at 59, Lowe is thankful for his life’s journey. He is proud of his work and how much he has grown personally.

Together with Berkoff, who is three years older than him, they have faced fame, worked on staying sober, and raised a family. Their strong bond is often talked about by Lowe in interviews and on social media.

Rob Lowe at the premiere of the film, "The Affair of the Necklace" on November 20, 2001 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe at the premiere of the film, “The Affair of the Necklace” on November 20, 2001 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Lowe’s rise to fame started with big roles in “The Outsiders,” with the likes of Tom Cruise, and “St. Elmo’s Fire,” with Demi Moore, making him a big name in 1980s movies.

Rob Lowe on the set of The Outsiders, circa 1980s | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe on the set of The Outsiders, circa 1980s | Source: Getty Images

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Rob Lowe (far left) with the cast of "St. Elmo's Fire" from L-R: Ally Sheedy, Demi Moore, Emilio Estevez, Mare Winningham, Judd Nelson and Andrew McCarthy, circa 1980s | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe (far left) with the cast of “St. Elmo’s Fire” from L-R: Ally Sheedy, Demi Moore, Emilio Estevez, Mare Winningham, Judd Nelson and Andrew McCarthy, circa 1980s | Source: Getty Images

But his fast life led to struggles with substance abuse. He recalls a time when drugs, especially cocaine, were everywhere in Hollywood. Facing a pivotal moment in his life, Lowe recognized the need for change, prompted by a personal crisis that would set him on a new course.

In the early ’90s, Lowe knew the severity of his situation. At 26, after a night out, he missed a critical voicemail from his mother. She was calling to tell him about his grandfather’s heart attack, but Lowe was too drunk to respond. This was a wake-up call for him.

Rob Lowe, circa 1990 | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe, circa 1990 | Source: Getty Images

Knowing he had to change, Lowe went to rehab. This began his path to not drinking. “I’ve never been happier, personally or professionally,” Lowe shares, thankful for his better life. Meeting Berkoff was key. She gave him the steadiness and insight he needed to get better.

With Berkoff’s support, Lowe confronted his addiction, resulting in his career’s resurgence. Lowe proved that personal transformation can pave the way for professional rejuvenation.

Rob Lowe at the Maltin Modern Master Award ceremony during the 39th Annual Santa Barbara International Film Festival at The Arlington Theatre on February 09, 2024 in Santa Barbara, California | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe at the Maltin Modern Master Award ceremony during the 39th Annual Santa Barbara International Film Festival at The Arlington Theatre on February 09, 2024 in Santa Barbara, California | Source: Getty Images

Even with personal challenges, Lowe’s career kept rising. His early roles in “The Outsiders” (1983) and later in “The West Wing” (1999), “Parks and Recreation” (2009), and his latest TV series, Fox’s “9-1-1: Lone Star” (2020), earned him praise and love from fans.

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Rob Lowe as Sam Seaborn on Season 1 of "The West Wing" | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe as Sam Seaborn on Season 1 of “The West Wing” | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe at the 100th episode celebration of "Parks and Recreation" at CBS Studios - Radford on October 16, 2013 in Studio City, California | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe at the 100th episode celebration of “Parks and Recreation” at CBS Studios – Radford on October 16, 2013 in Studio City, California | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe as Owen Strand for the series premiere of "9-1-1: Lone Star" in January 2020 | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe as Owen Strand for the series premiere of “9-1-1: Lone Star” in January 2020 | Source: Getty Images

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While thankful for his career, Lowe shares a shift in focus after turning 26. “Up until I turned 26, I spent all my time investing in my career. From 26 on, I’ve invested in me,” he says.

Meeting Berkoff changed Lowe’s life, leading him to stability and growth. They first met during the filming of “Bad Influence” in 1990. Back then, the actor was very famous.

Rob Lowe and Sheryl Berkoff at the 'True Lies' premiere on July 12, 1994 at the Mann Village Theatre in Westwood, California | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe and Sheryl Berkoff at the ‘True Lies’ premiere on July 12, 1994 at the Mann Village Theatre in Westwood, California | Source: Getty Images

Sheryl Berkoff and Rob Lowe at the private opening of Sascha von Bismarck's debut photography collection, "Perfume" at Eric Buterbaugh Gallery on September 6, 2017 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

Sheryl Berkoff and Rob Lowe at the private opening of Sascha von Bismarck’s debut photography collection, “Perfume” at Eric Buterbaugh Gallery on September 6, 2017 in Los Angeles, California | Source: Getty Images

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Berkoff played a big role in Lowe’s decision to become sober. “She may have saved my life, really. She met me when I was at the end of my ’80s run of wild boy craziness, and she was worth changing my life for,” says Lowe.

Rob Lowe and Sheryl Berkoff at the closing ceremony of the 59th Monte Carlo TV Festival on June 18, 2019 in Monte-Carlo, Monaco | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe and Sheryl Berkoff at the closing ceremony of the 59th Monte Carlo TV Festival on June 18, 2019 in Monte-Carlo, Monaco | Source: Getty Images

The “About Last Night” star found the stability he needed with Berkoff. “I had the feeling that if I was ever going to be able to make it work with anybody, it was Sheryl,” he has said.

Their strong bond led them to get married in 1991. Together, they have two sons, Matthew, 30, and John Owen, 28.

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Berkoff stands out not just as Lowe’s supportive partner but also for her own impressive career. Born in June 1961, she made a name for herself as a talented makeup artist in Hollywood, working on more than 30 films and TV shows. She’s known for her creative work with famous stars, including Lowe.

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Berkoff’s creativity didn’t stop there. She also founded Sheryl Lowe Jewelry, channeling her love for the ’70s surf culture and music into her designs. Her brand is known for its colorful, unique pieces that mix rare gems with a touch of spirituality.

Her jewelry line, praised for its lively colors and unique designs, captures the spirit of the ’70s while offering modern luxury.

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Berkoff’s impact on Lowe goes beyond her professional success. As his life partner, she has played a crucial role in his journey.

Lowe often shares his deep appreciation for his wife. For instance, celebrating their 31st anniversary on Instagram last year, he expressed, “Your love has made my world. You are as beautiful, knowledgeable, fascinating, kind, and hilarious as you were so many glorious years ago. Partners in love for life!!”

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Their enduring bond is rooted in a deep friendship. Lowe says, “It starts at the very beginning. I married my best friend, and if you’re lucky enough to be in a relationship with your best friend, you’re so far ahead of the game.”

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Lowe talks about how well they get along too, and how they “see the world the same way.” They agree on important things, like raising kids and handling money. They also make a point to stay close, changing their rule from being apart for no more than two weeks to just one.

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Celebrating 32 years of marriage in July 2023, Lowe shared his love for Berkoff online, writing, “Today marks 32 years married to this beautiful, inspiring, nurturing, strong, industrious, sexy, and wonderfully unique woman.”

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Lowe often praises Berkoff publicly, highlighting a partnership based on respect, admiration, and shared values. “I’m happy I lived the life that I lived because I have no regrets,” he says, crediting his fulfillment to his life with Berkoff and their family.

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Lowe and Berkoff’s lasting relationship has fascinated many for over 30 years. This fascination was clear in the “Literally! With Rob Lowe” host’s Mother’s Day post in May 2023, where he shared a touching message and picture of his wife.

The post attracted lots of comments from fans. Many praised Berkoff’s timeless beauty and their strong relationship. Comments ranged from “Beautiful couple!” to “Absolutely STUNNING!!!” showing how much people admire them. Although a few noticed changes that rendered Berkoff unrecognizable, most comments celebrated their enduring love and life together

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The couple’s latest public outing was at the DIRECTV “Streaming With The Stars” event at Spago in Beverly Hills. Their appearance at the event that Lowe hosted underscores their ongoing partnership in both personal and professional spheres.

Rob Lowe and Sheryll Berkoff at the DIRECTV Streaming With The Stars event hosted by Rob Lowe at Spago on March 10, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe and Sheryll Berkoff at the DIRECTV Streaming With The Stars event hosted by Rob Lowe at Spago on March 10, 2024 | Source: Getty Images

Lowe and Berkoff have kept their marriage strong despite Hollywood’s challenges. The A-list star often says Berkoff’s support has been key to his success. Their relationship, based on friendship, respect, and a shared love for their family, shows lasting love is possible in Hollywood.

Rob Lowe Finally Reveals The Secret To Looking So Youthful At 59, Yet Notes One ‘Embarrassing’ Thing About It

Rob Lowe is already 59, but the beloved actor does not look a day over 30. Fans and Hollywood fanatics alike have been amazed by his preserved appearance, which doesn’t seem to have changed since he starred in 1985’s “St. Elmo’s Fire.”

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Rob Lowe during ABC's "Jimmy Kimmel Live" - Season 17 | Source: Getty Images

Rob Lowe during ABC’s “Jimmy Kimmel Live” – Season 17 | Source: Getty Images

Recently, Lowe shared the secret that many have been wanting to hear from him: what he does to stay young. The actor revealed that he puts in the work to care for his physical appearance and overall well-being. His holy grail for the fountain of youth is sleep.

“I get tons of sleep,” he admitted. “Like, an embarrassing amount. I don’t want people to think something is wrong with me. It’s a lot of sleep, not 12 hours. But if there’s ever 12 [hours] to be had, I’m taking it.”

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In between work and home, he relaxes in his SUV with reclined seats. He also gets help by using Bose noise-canceling headphones and an eye mask. He previously even shared a photo of himself sleeping with his dog, claiming mornings were not their thing.

Besides getting enough shut-eye, he keeps an eye on the food and beverages he consumes. Since his 30s, Lowe’s diet has been consisting of low carbohydrate, high protein food, which he said made a “big difference” in his life. Admittedly, he misses binging on carbohydrates but knows how food can affect his appearance.

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He also strays away from alcoholic beverages, marking his 33 years of sobriety. “When you think about the calories and the bloat you’re missing. That just adds up. So that’s super helpful,” he said.

Lowe has also spent the past years focusing on his family, including his wife of over three decades and their sons. Lowe married makeup artist Sheryl Berkoff in 1991 and have since been inseparable.

Within four years, they welcomed two sons, who Lowe described as “amazing.” By then, he felt ready for fatherhood and raising his kids alongside Berkoff. Looking back, Lowe is happy with how his life turned out and the decisions he made in starting a family.

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